They Will Mould You To What They Want If You Let Them. But Who Were You Before The World Told You Who To Be?

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Carry yourself like you belong to yourself because you do. Carry yourself in a way that makes you feel good.  Carry yourself like you are your own beauty standard because you are. Carry yourself like you love your body, it’s your home. Carry yourself like you don’t care what they think because you don’t. You’ve been conditioned to minimise yourself, … Read More

The Ultimate Self Care Secret. Stop Saying Yes When You Want To Say No.

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One of the worst recurring self-harm cycles you can create is betraying yourself by saying yes when you want to say no. Starting today, reconstruct your relationship with yourself, and develop better self-care by being aware of your moments of agreement with others. Check-in with yourself. Is it a mind, body, and spirit yes or is it an assurance, validation, … Read More

Centrin​g men and men behaving badly

MoirasConfabLove and Patriarchy

I want to celebrate but I have to question why we have a Woman’s Day and a Women’s History Month. The sarcastic me says ‘Oh wow thanks a WHOLE day just for us thank you so much!’ ……”Wait, what you’ve given us a whole month to share our achievements and contribution too? Oh thank you, thank you, thank you!’’ Then … Read More

This is why most women continue to struggle with love.

MoirasConfabLove and Patriarchy

Romanticising love and mythicising the power of love, has literary got us twisted. We really need to talk more about how everyone erroneously assumes that you’ll instinctively know how to love. It’s not true. We need to admit that we are dealing with an emotional attachment being triggered by our perception and understanding of the promise of this mythical and … Read More